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Help me deal with this drama!

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Question - (16 July 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 17 July 2010)
A female United States age 41-50, *z_lani1 writes:

This is too much drama for me..Here's the story:

I went to work early this morning @ 6am, and I also went to go pick up my check so I can pay bills..so I cashed my check, gave money to those who took me 3 towns from where I reside, and came home to see if my son wanted to go with me to pay for my loan too.

So, I paid my rent, i paid my electricity bill, and I have paid my cable and internet sevice bill too.

As I got home, i got sleepy, and I woke up to a freakin BANG BANG BANG..my dude's people's freakin bangin on my door like they demand for me to open it. So my dude went to go check who it was- and it was his bald-headed granny..lol..but anyway, she was bangin on my door for an actual 20 minutes and he didnt even want to open the door. So when she left, he wanted to argue with me because I told him I don't want none of his people's at my house no more.

I am tired of them calling me out of my name, talking behind my back and he don't do nothing about it..What kind of man does that? Like, does he like having me pissed off, let alone- he aint even working so he was trying to flip the script on me sayin that when he was working, he wasnt like this towards me, and i told him- a man is supposed to take care of his family regardless how hard it is, n all he could say is nothing..

So, what I'm really trying to say, how am i supposed to cope with all this drama, when I am in skool (I passed my studies online for this month-I made a 1214 out of 1340), I am working to have a steady income rolling in just to on time with bills, rent and food, but he dont even help..he aint even trying..he say he do, but i jus dont see it..what am I goin to do.?

I should jus leave it alone n jus continue on doing me so I can go back home where i dont have to deal with all this mess..My brain literally hurts from studying for skool but i keep pushin myself cuz i want better, my body is sore becuz I work odd hours n I am running all over town takin my son to day care n pic him up with no car, so i take the bus to do all this nonsense..*crying* - - - - I am about to catch an anxiety attack.. H E L P M E !!

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A female reader, Moo's Mum New Zealand +, writes (17 July 2010):

Moo's Mum agony auntKick his arse to the curb.

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