Should I go with the original life goes on plan?

A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

So I had been seeing this guy since September, so for about four months, we go to the same college and last semester we even had some classes together. We only hung out outside of class once or twice a week because college schedules are hectic, and he is in the Army. We talked all through winter break, we weren't able to visit each other due to schedules. We talked for the first week this semester, and now all of a sudden he stopped talking to me. So I decided that I would go on a 14 day cleanse, where I wouldn't talk to him, I wouldn't go out of my way to see him, and I would go on with my life without him. Two days later he showed up at a club meeting, that he knew I was in. He sat behind me, he didn't say anything, but then again neither did I. I left the meeting early because I had to go to class. The next day I got up early to go swimming, as usually, and the entire Army is in there swimming. I saw him, and he definitely saw me, but neither of us said anything...am I doing the right thing waiting for him to say something first? Should I just go with my original plan to move on? I know this is kind of long winded but I wanted everyone to have a clear understanding of the situation.

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