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writes:Help.. I'm really confused... I have my someone special right now... I know he loves me too... we kiss, hold hands, hug (but not sex- we're still virgins and are still young to do that) but we're not "IN A RELATIONSHIP"... we've been like this for almost 4 months already and I'm 100% sure that there's no other girls (I'm the only one) - I don't have other guys too... He's really a great man and we really enjoy each others company...Our friends were already asking us what's going on and I don't know what to answer... we are very happy together but I'm afraid that he might just leave me anytime... what will I do...? should I go with the flow? do you think he REALLY LOVES me or he's just playing?? waaaaahhh.. I'm getting paranoid again... huhuhu... I will appreciate your answers... thank you very much! :) Reply to this Question
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reader, Oregongrl1  +, writes (28 August 2010):
Honey, a good man sticks around no matter what! and it sounds like you have something good!! how does he feel? about not having sex yet. if he's ok w/ it then you should be too! don't ever feel pure pressure like i said a good man will wait.
Good Luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2010): You should ask him now. Don't let it go any further without clarification. I just waited for my boyfriend to make it clear that we were "in a relationship" and it never happened. We went out for over 10 months and I was never happy. It ended really badly because of that. Always make sure you know what's going on. Just one thing, make it clear that you want one, but don't push him or make it an ultimatum. Just ask him nicely where this is going and I'm sure he'll tell you. Good luck!
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reader, NoNonsence  +, writes (27 August 2010):
I thank virginity is a beautiful thing. Hold on to it as long as you can the right man will waight for you. And remember once it's gone you never get it back.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2010): Personally, you guys just seem to be friends or friends with benefits, if you will. If a guy wants a relationship with you then he will let you know. Sometimes guys are just looking for someone to fill their time without the need for an actual relationship. There is a possibility that your feeling for him are much stronger than his for you, be very careful because at times our imaginations can blow things out of proportion and make things more serious than they really are. Try not get to attached until it is official because you will wind up with your feeling hurt. He can get a girlfriend at any time and it doesnt have to be you.Take it from someone who has been there before, proceed with caution.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (27 August 2010):
 4 months and you guys are undefined, usually guys decide after 1-2 months if it's going to go anywhere...Ask him what is your guys status, are you exclusively dating since there is no one else in the picture, working towards a relationship but not wanting to rush it, or are you boyfriend and girlfriend but he forgot to mention it? Let him know you're a little confused and you need him to clarify the situation.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2010): If he was playing you then you would have already had sex and he would be gone. It sounds like you two are in a relationship. Some guys dont like labels, I think you should talk to him about it.
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