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writes:*OP's Original Title*i know this guy who im starting to like but we are still just getting to know each other. he keeps telling me he likes me but i said we should wait to go out until hes older because the problem is right now hes twelve. he said hes turning thirteen in september and i just turned fourteen at the end of may. literally on may thirtith. ive asked a lot of my friends and they say i shouldn't do it because since i just moved itll give me a bad rep. hes going into seventh grade and im going to be a freshman. I know it sounds bad but i do care about him and he says he cares about me. i also told him that maybe we should wait until hes in high school. but idk. would that make me a slut? and would it be foolish to date someone almost two years younger than you? or a year but two grades? you know what i mean. another thing is since we just met hes does ask me to do stuff with him. just him and me. you know what stuff im talkig about, usualy when i write aboutit in here it rejects my question...anyway he asked to do stuff to me and if id do stuff for him. i told him as far as i would go is make out but thats kinda slutty too! i want to though....I have no idea what to do!!hes told me im beautiful tho:) and that hed like to hang out with me more. after he met he even changed a bunch of stuff on facebook. like his relationship statuses and his birthday. its kinda cute. but plz help
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reader, xanthic +, writes (10 July 2010):
 The things he says or does on Facebook can't be taken seriously, because there's no way to know he's really being genuine. Even in person it's not always easy to tell, but definitely easier.
After all, he could only be saying or doing certain things just to get you to do more than make out with him, which honestly is what it sounds like. It's unfortunately very common for boys his age to try to talk their way into getting what they want.
If you do end up dating him, just make sure you don't do anything you're not comfortable with.
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