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female
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30-35,
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writes:I went out with this dude for 2 weeks, i broke up with him cuz i didnt want to be in a non-serious relationship, i mean he's player, always flirtin with other girls and he used to go out with 2 girls at once plus he didnt really treat me good. its been 3 months now but he still talks to me on myspace nd stuff. and a few days ago he IM'd me 4 prolly the 3rd time since the break-up. we talked for a while then he said "hey, we should hang out soon" so i said "sure" cuz well i thought he meant with other ppl. and we picked a place and time (we're going to the movies) . and i wanted ot make sure so i said "who else is goin?" he said "u want other ppl to go too?" i said "its up to u" he said "its up to u" so i said "well it depends on the ride then" and after that we talked some more. Now, its been a couple days since we last talked..and im supposed to go to the movies wit him this wednesday.. but i dont want to . I have definitely moved on.and i dont want him back. i mean come on, that dudes a jerk. but i want to hurt him. i want to do wat he did to me. which is to call him on wednesday saying i cant go. but the other part of me doesnt want to look back and asking wat if? i dont want to get back together wit him, but i just wanna to know how he will treat me and how he feels about me. so in order to see that i have to go. plus if i go, i will totally play it cool i wont be all over him like i was. and i want to show off my new looks and show him wat he's been missing. so um i dont know if i should go or not. help! and please provide good reasons with ur answer. dont just say i should or shouldnt. thanks alot!
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reader, QuirkLady  +, writes (1 September 2009):
 The best revenge is moving on and living your life to the fullest.
Cancel the plans, don't contact him again, and focus on making your life the best it can be. Why worry about a jerk that isn't worrying about you? Life is too short for that crap.
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