A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I have a co worker with whom I´ve been hanging out a bit more lately. We´ve being co workers since 7 years ago, but never looked at each other as such more than that. He has a Girlfriend who works in the same company as well, only in different area.Today, he was talking about how he loves her, but she is TOO jealous and whenever she looks at him chatting with other girl she freaks out and they end up arguing. He says he feels tired of her acting like that sometimes. He said, "If someone else started treating me better and start winning my will, I will have to leave her if she don´t change".....hm mm, what do you think he wants or means by it. If he wants to leave her, he would or is he being serious about it? He´s being very flirty and over attentive with me. What should I do, or say to him?And yeah I think is a mutual thing with the attraction thing.....Advices please!
View related questions:
co-worker, flirt, has a girlfriend, jealous Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2009): Are you looking for us to give you the go ahead to have an affair with this other girls boyfriend?
A
female
reader, QuirkLady  +, writes (1 September 2009):
 "He has a girlfriend"
It stops right there. As long as a man has a girlfriend he is not dating material.
Also, listen to what he said...if someone starts treating him better, he will leave his girlfriend IF SHE DOESN'T CHANGE, meaning 1) he is willing to go behind his girlfriend's back and 2) he wouldn't leave his girlfriend if she treated him right, no matter what the other woman did.
If you fall for this mess - with a coworker, no less, which means there will be problems with your job if any drama pops off! - you need to reassess yourself. He's only throwing a baited line out to see if he can get some easy fish, if you know what I mean. Don't be silly enough to fall for it.
Good luck.
...............................
|
