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Should I go and meet her or is she just playing games?

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Question - (18 March 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 27 March 2010)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I met this girl online, maybe 2 weeks ago, she is 18 and she seems like the perfect girl for me but she lives in cali and i live in north carolina. We talk every day, she told me she loved me and she wants to be with me etc. I dont know if she really means that or if she is just playing with me. We talked about meeting in the summer, me going there to see her. i wanna do it but I dont know if I should.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2010):

This girl you just met,she is just using you,people that go to fast with relationships usually just got dumped and can't get over them so the rush into a new relationship,if you like her you could give it a try but my advice is keep your eyes open buddy cali girls are most likely to cause depression!

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A male reader, TimmD United States +, writes (18 March 2010):

TimmD agony aunt2 weeks seems a little fast for her to be telling you she loves you. Especially without even meeting. I suggest talking on the phone first, and then just proceeding slowly. If you can confirm she is who you think she is, then maybe suggest meeting somewhere in-between over the summer (Texas, possibly).

But again, 2 weeks seems really fast. Use caution...

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