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male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hello... I had sent a love letter to a girl whom i liked in my office, but she never responded to a love letter and it's been 4 months since i sent her a love letter. Should i go and face her directly and ask her?The Girl already left the office over a year ago and i had sent her a love letter over Facebook.Thank you.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (21 June 2015):
 You already got a reply: she doesn't want any contact with you. Accept this. Don't bother trying to meet her or pursue her. If she was interested, she would have contacted you back.
Next time though, do NOT send love letters. Talk to the woman face to face, and don't declare love right away, because it can be intimidating. You need to move slowly and get to know her first.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2015): I agree with Tisha-1. Silence IS her answer. If you never had an official love-connection in-person, you've never asked for a date, and you're hiding behind a message; your response is silence, or crickets in the background.
I don't think she's interested; and to approach her would be most inappropriate. With women, no response is NO! No thank you! Please leave me alone! Take whichever interpretation you understand best.
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (21 June 2015):
 FB would be my Last source of communication of real feelings. Face-to-face is the only way to express yourself other than maybe an old fashioned letter written from the heatrt. But FB Pleaseeeeee?
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (20 June 2015):
 Her lack of a response IS her response. She isn't interested. What's the point of doing this now, after 4 months? And why would you do this over Facebook? Did you know her very well, or was this something more like a crush on a girl you looked at from afar?
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (20 June 2015):
 It's inconceivable that one could ".... write a love letter..." on Facebook. A REAL "love letter" is written on paper..... it is posted WITH A STAMP ON IT.... and MEANS that the sender really DOES love the person to whom he, or she, sent it.....
Try that. If it works, you're in. If she doesn't respond, chalk it up to the Postal service failing to deliver the letter....
Good luck....
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (20 June 2015):
 I'm sorry to maybe crush your hopes, but the FACT that she hasn't responded most likely means SHE doesn't reciprocate those feelings for you.
If you can HANDLE rejection, then go talk to her face-to-face, but it will not CHANGE how she feels, just make HER feel more awkward.
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