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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Does she like me?i frequent my bank, and there is a new teller there and ive notice she is always eager to help me and if I don't go to her window she gets upset and wont speak to me, or if I don't speak to her she gets upset....today I called the bank and boy was she extra happy...I can feel her just smiling in the background....wth...should I ask her what's up or just leave it alone? my bro thinks she is prolly bi and has a crush on me....she is younger than me I do know that much.....and she comes off as freaky.....what do u all think is she just being friendly or does she like me like? should I give her my number or wait to see if she's gonna ask me for mine....im not an outdoorsy person but I wouldn't mind chillin with her....thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2016): It is really up to you it is something you could ask or just see how it goes, signlike is correct the worst is you find another bank!!!! I hope she talks to you!!!!!
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reader, signlike +, writes (24 February 2016):
The worst that could is happen is 1) you could make her feel uncomfortable and/or 2) you may have to find another bank.
If you are okay with those possibilities or think you know a way out of them, I'd say go ahead.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (23 February 2016):
 She should always be eager to help you, that is her job after all and it sounds like she is good at it. When you say she gets upset how do you know this? Does she show emotion? Does she shed tears or is it you that thinks aw she looks upset. You say you can feel her smiling, but am sure that is her job. I don't think you should give her your number, I think you should smile back when you see her and leave it at that. Let her do her job that she is paid to do and don't put her in an awkward situation. Don't read in to these signs to much.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2016): I wouldnt mix business with pleasure.
Remember its part of her job to put on a friendly smily face and part of the job to only talk to customers who are in her queue.
its possible that you have put extra meaning into her friendliness.
It doesnt mean she is bi or even that she is looking for a sex partner of any sort.
It just means that she is the smily friendly face of the bank so dont make her job harder by throwing her a curved ball as they say.
Look elsewhere for your conquests and let her do her work in peace.x
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