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writes: I've been crushing on this really sweet man, he fixes my car for free,(mechanic) he took me camping with his daughter, than I took him camping with my family, and was my date for the wedding I went to. He bought everyone drinks. He was such a gentleman, we shared a bed and didn't try anything with me, we just cuddled. He just recently broke up with his ex after 2 1/2 yrs. What should I do? I know he likes me; he said he likes me alot. We joke and say to each other Who's ur daddy? Last time he said who's ur daddy I said u can be if u want to, he said this daddy has bad intentions, how should I take that??? Should I just keep it as friends till he's over his ex, or should I pursue this? One more thing on the way back from camping I blew my alternator and he said he'd fix it the next day, this was on Sunday, I called him yesterday and he hasn't returned my call. Do u think he's just confused about me and the ex? He says we're complete opposites and they always fight. I need some advise. Please help!! Thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2006): Just be a friend. Be prepared that is all he wants as it is "safe". Time will tell.
He may be confused about his Ex and they may be working things out as of now.
Either way, just remain friends.
It is natural to develop feelings for someone you spend so much time with. Especially someone so considerate.
You could just come out and say that you know and appreciated you were good friends and tell him how much you like him and why you like him and say that if you ever are ready to date; please consider me. Tell him that you can respect a no and that you understand why he would say no.
Tell him you are there as a friend always.
Then tell yourself no physical intamacies until he has made a decision. Don't tempt him. Wait.
Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2006): I would carry on as you are for the time being at just being friends and i wouldnt push it to go any further than that for a bit as he could just be on the rebound.If its meant to be between you than a little more time wont make any difference.
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