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writes: My best friend and i recently went away together to her parents house for the weekend. She is in a relationship, and i was on a break with mine. Anyway, she confessed to me that night that she liked me and was curious about wanting to be with me. She said she'd always thought about me and what it would be like for us to be together. I admitted i'd felt the same. Anyway, we talked it out, but both decided that it would be best for us not to do anything because we have ties to other people. We fell asleep.First thing in the morning when we woke up, before either of us knew it, we wound up having sex. She immediately left the room afterwards and i felt really guilty. By the time she got back, I had collected myself and we talked. I told her that we shouldn't do that again, and that my ties were with someone else. She, on the other hand, told me that she wanted us to hook up again, and that she thought we'd be good together. As the weekend went on, I got more comfortable, and we began behaving like a couple. We acted like we were dating. We held hands, cuddled, etc. When she came back home and went back to her boyfriend, she sent me an email and told me that she thought her and I were a mistake, and that she realized how much her boyfriend means to her, but that we were still best friends. It actually hurt a lot. I tried to play it off, but i don't think i did a very good job. Now i'm stuck with these feelings for this girl that i didn't ask for, and I'm feeling rejected by her. Why would she tell me that she wanted to be with me, and then the next thing I know, be telling me that i'm a mistake? How does that work?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2006): Thats So Slack of Her!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2006): How can you have sex before knowing that it was happening?
She isn't a someone to wait for; she is untrustworthy. She used you mate. It was probably her evening the score with her boyfriend.
It was intentional, she knew what she was doing. She put the moves on you and had sex with you...intentional. She should not have been with a single male and choose to fall asleep with him. In her heart she cheated when she told you she had an intrest with you while she was seeing someone. She put her desires to practice.
She isn't some uneducated, socially ignorant woman but she is a piranah.
Tell her how angry and hurt you are over her hurting you and that she if she had any sense of what is right; she will tell her boyfriend.
Then move on.
Best of wishes Mate.
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