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*elsen
writes:Dear all, I came back again, I got a new problem with my boy friend(I am a gay). In these two weeks, my BF broke his promise time and time, and always let me get the evidence. I feel so tired, so that I can not work normally. How can I do? give one more change to him or say bai-bye now? Actually, I love him, but I really don't know he love me or not, he does not have job, so sometimes, I think he live with me only for my money, although I don't like to think so. We have lived more than two month, but in these two month, we just made love one time, only one time. Maybe I give more stress to him, but I don't know what I can do else,I allow him to date with other boy day and/or night, he can chat with other guy 3 or more long time,but leaving me other side. My friend, could you tell me whatI should do now? I feel very very sad now, and I am under the depression, I don't want to do any other bad things for myself.Please do me a favor, thanks. Kelsen from China
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2008): i'm sorry to read that.. but it seems ike you are under appreciated and it's not fair to you to be treated like that.. you said it has happened time and time again and he isn't stopping so you should get yourself out of that relationship... don't hide from the truth.. you know you feel used.. and sadly it happens.. he doesn't deserve you.. get out of that relationship as soon as you can unless you are destined to work it out and talk to him but if that fails.. don't let him keep his bad ways.. get him out of your life..
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2008): Kelsen,
I suggest you seek help for your consuelling if you feel its best. If you decide to sort out the depression on your own by all means do, but if you really struggle, seek help before it gets worse.
How about trying to talk about your problems or seek some kind of consuelling for the both of you. I know I'm throwing everything on consuelling but they are the professionals who will be able to help you.
Unless of course you just want to end it?
But as I said, talk to him about your issues with the relationship. Tell him what you've told us.
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