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writes:ok, just a question, not often I meet anyone that I think wow to. But three weeks ago I met a lovely guy when out, we chatted and excahnged numbers, and had quite a few nice snogs. Well that night I met him he told me all about the fact his mum is really poorly and in hospital and he is really close to her and its a tough time for him. Well he has initiated all contact since, and asked to meet for coffee one day then cancelled that morn, saying his aunty was coming to stay and he needed to see her as they were going to visit his mum together. he knows Im a nurse and has called and talked through his mums diagnosis withme. We then made a vague arrangement with me as I was away on a course and his mums hospital is close by. But again he could not make it as he had to take his dad and sis home after visiting. He basically said im sorry promise we will get together its just a really difficult time. Question is I realise it must be really hard for him at mo and he prob isntin the mood for dating. I have left it all the time and waited for him to initiate contact which he has. So what should I do ? be patient ? Or is he really not that interested? I know he is single thats definate. Its just what do I do will we ever meet ? x Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionok just a little response to that last answer, wondered why he bothers initiating contact with me whenI havent initiated it once. my guess is if a guy is not that into you why bother contact me at all...he has no reason to communicate withme. i have to say if my mum were practicually dying, i think i wouldnt be rushing out on dates. wondered if their were any thoughs from guys, if your mum was that ill and you met someone you liked would you, be pusuing her or just touch base with her ? x
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2008): My dear:
Basic on personal experience, I would say "He is not that into you!". Sorry!
However, things happened in an unexpected way. Good luck!
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