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anonymous
writes:we've been very close friends for 6 years and since living 280km apart and studying we couldn't see each other as often as we wished. i knew his girlfriend of four years. then we started dating about 6 months ago(after their breakup because she cheated) and he's been wonderful. i moved in with him, problem: i found out he's cheated on his girlfriend 4 times. he started introducing me to his female friends, sometimes they will call him on my phone when he's unreachable. lately i found out the woman who's been calling a lot is his other girlfriend and their relationship has become sexual, nb: we sometimes don't use a condom and i'm pregnant with his child. i broke up with him, but he's asking for second chance. should i give it to him. i love him but i don't like taking abuse of any kind.
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reader, rammsteinfan  +, writes (16 October 2007):
 Once a cheater, always a cheater. Like what Tommy7 said...he is a player BIG TIME! I have been in a relationship like what you described. In my situation I had several women calling all the time. And he was cheating on me with more that one of those women! I even talked to his ex-wife and he even cheated on her big time with dozens of other women! I got out of that relationship FAST! That is what you should do.
Don't give him a second chance....because he will do it again! Find a man who has honor and respect for you!
God Bless!!!
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reader, JaffaZ  +, writes (16 October 2007):
 If he has another girlfriend like you said, then I don't think you should give him another chance. Especially if they've been having sex! If he's cheated on you, then he obviously can't care as much about you as you do for him. You deserve better than that. I think that if you don't want to be abused, then you shouldn't be with someone who cheats like that.
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reader, Tommy7 +, writes (16 October 2007):
He's a player. Get away quickly.
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reader, flower girl  +, writes (16 October 2007):
 I am usually all up for giving people a second chance but i would say to you he has already been unfaithful to you and he cheated on his previous girlfriend so he clearly will not stop.
Obviously i can see that it would be hard for you being on your own with a child but it would be better than being with someone that clearly has no respect for you and who is ultimatly willing to risk your health by sleeping with other people unprotected.
Take care.x.x
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