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writes:My girlfriend was ignoring me a couple weeks ago for a couple weeks cause she thought I was hiding things from her and was on my phone a lot. Well we got back together last week and spent like 3 days with her total last week. She said she was really sorry for ignoring me and bad communication. She also told me she loved me last week and was talking about things we could do in the future. She also said she wanted me to meet her dad. I stopped by her apartment yesterday to see how she was cause I just got done camping so I walked to her door and heard her daughter crying then heard her then I knocked but she didn't answer me so I left and tried to call her but no answer. So I texted her asking what's wrong and she said that she doesn't appreciate me just showing up at her place out of the blue and she also said I'm possessive and I seem controlling also I'm marking my territory on Facebook. She says I text her a lot and whe she doesn't answer I text more so I guess I've been kinda possessive but I can't see how I'm controlling. I want to fix things but how? I tried to explain myself but it was mostly over text. Like I said she said she loved me last week and now this. She said doing too much too soon. Which last week we talked about moving too fast and it didn't seem like she thought we were. She didn't break up with me that I know of. Should I give her some time or what? How do I handle this?
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reader, Charger +, writes (31 May 2012):
Charger is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI'm not sure if she's coming back this time. Like I said I love her but tired of her not really talking to me about stuff. It's all through text which I suck at texting. Now she's ignoring me again which last time she didnt remove me from face book so I think she's trying to forget about me completely. I hate these situations. I know a couple weeks ago whe she ignored me she had a lot going on in her life. I guess I have to move on right? I mean I'd love to fight for her but how do I do that without becoming a creep. She already thought I was texting too much and stuff.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2012): I'm going tru the same situation, he has been ignoring me for something I did, I was considering going to his house and talk to him. In your situation if you haven't done anything wrong just let her be. When she sees that you stop caring about her she will come back to you.
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reader, Charger +, writes (30 May 2012):
Charger is verified as being by the original poster of the questionShe removed me from Facebook so I'm guessing she broke up with me. The one the I like is communicating. It's just very bad communication. He personality was great until she ignores me. How are we supposed to work things out if she ignores me. Like I said she confuses me cause she just said last week she loved me. I'm not sure exactly why I act like this. I guess is bothers me when a girl I like or am with doesn't communicate with me often. Being ignored like this is very hurtful. Last time she did this I kept at it and she eventually started talking to me again. She I just give up now?
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reader, bouyga  +, writes (30 May 2012):
Give her some space. In the meantime take time to reflect on why you are behaving like this. do you not trust her ? is there something that makes you react this way
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