A
female
age
51-59,
anonymous
writes:Hi all,My boyfriend and i always txt each other good nite and it's usually cute and personal,but last nite he texts nite nite sweet dreams he always says those words first, but then he added, to the sexy one. Maybe i'm being silly but that to me didn't sound caring or personal, if he had said nite nite sweet dreams sexy i would have not been put off by it.but to say,to the sexy one just sounds weird to me.but then again maybe i'm being a fool.what would you aunt's preffered to have said to you.??
View related questions:
text Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, Ciar  +, writes (30 May 2012):
 I think you're over analyzing and over reacting.
A
female
reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (30 May 2012):
 I don't find texting personal at all... if it bothers you then ask him what he meant... he probably didn't mean anything bad by it at all...
I think you are over reacting....
as for what I would like for bedtime...
we used to have bedtime tuck in phone calls... I would call him after i got into bed and we would just say good night speak to you in the morning....
if you text the same thing every night maybe he was just trying to shake things up....
...............................
A
female
reader, mooh +, writes (30 May 2012):
it's nothing bad, maybe he was just trying to do something different and more edgy then "cute". If this is the first time he does it, then i would say not to overthink it and let it go (it's just an sms after all and will sound very needy. it's not like he has changed his personality or how he's treating you) . However if it happens again and it disturbs you (e.g. you notice changes in his behavior) talk to him about it and mention the things you like about him and what he brings to the relationship.
...............................
|
