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Should I get tested or am I being paranoid?

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Question - (18 March 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 18 March 2009)
A female United Kingdom age , anonymous writes:

I have been reading posts on this site about cheating and one of the answers said about getting tested for aids.

My husband cheated on me between 1992 up until February 2008 with different women(3) I never thought of getting tested but it's got me worried now, surely I will have some symptons?

How long before you notice anything could be wrong?

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A female reader, Fairy_Lu United Kingdom +, writes (18 March 2009):

Fairy_Lu agony auntI would go get tested for everthing HIV and clamydia have no symptoms at all and HIV is deadly and clamydia makes you sterile.

You should both go and get tested it would keep your mind at rest and it does not take long at all, and you can get the results by txt call or post.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2009):

Just get tested. My fiance cheated on me with different numerous loose women, and I heard he never used protection with them, like he did with me. This tormented me for years, thought about my health daily, and I was so paranoid. I eventually got tested, and that was the best thing I did. For me, it was negative and I was so relieved. It's good to know. Do it for you.

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A female reader, k_c100 United Kingdom +, writes (18 March 2009):

k_c100 agony auntWell you could have gotten a variety of STI's from your husband, including aids. Some STI's have symptoms, others dont. The best thing for you to do is try not to worry yourself about this, but go to your doctors as soon as you can. If you cannot get an appointment at the doctors then there are walk-in clinics at many of the larger hospitals, you can check online or give your local hospital a ring to find out when they offer this service.

When you are there, they will ask of you have any symptoms (in your case I am assuming the answer is no) and then they will ask if you want a full test or just a specific test. because you could have any number of STI's you need to get the full test done. The results will come back to you within 2 to 3 weeks, and for an aids/HIV test the results take 2-3 months.

I hope this helps and make sure you get tested ASAP!

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A female reader, kellyxxx United Kingdom +, writes (18 March 2009):

kellyxxx agony auntGet tested! If you are unsure its better to be safe than sorry! X

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