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*izzie wooly
writes: there is this guy who goes my kickboxing aged 15-16 and i have fancied him for ever /well since i met him lol\ hes started to notice me more as time has gone on. the lats time i went kickboxing he kept trying to stand next to me when we where in lines. then next we had to go in pairs he walked over to me i saw him coming and i went into shock and shouted to go with my friend and ran off. he then went with some one else. every time i look at him he always looks back. i want my mate to talk to him and see what he thinks about me but what if i have took things the wrong way. what should i do and what should my mate say to him.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (26 February 2010):
When I like someone, I always tell them myself. I always have done. The reason is that it's so much more personal and believable if you do it yourself. No one wants to hear it from a third person, because it could be a joke. If you like this guy, do it yourself. That way you both know where you stand and there is no confusion. Also, you'll look a lot better in his eyes.
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reader, collins27023 +, writes (25 February 2010):
you know, you yourself should go up to him and talk to him, but make sure you map out what your going to say otherwise it might go bad. He is now noticing you more than ever that means he is interested so all you need to do is build up the courage to go to him and talk. whats the worst that could happen, seriously.
hope i helped
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reader, LoverBoy91 +, writes (25 February 2010):
You should probably go yourself talk to him, and you might wanna start the conversation by apologizing about that day when you ran off on him when he came to pick you as pair, and according to what he answers then you two can keep flowing with conversations about other things and so on. About asking your friend to go talk to him, it's not a bad idea, but you shouldn't use him/her to talk to him for you, that is a task you should do yourself for better results, but you can ask your friend just to talk to him and see what he thinks of you, and maybe to try to hook you up, but no telling him that you said whatever you want said, you say whatever you wanna say.
Good Luck!
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