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writes:K well my girlfriend is out of town for training for her work for 2 weeks. When the weekend came I asked her not to drink and she did I got mad and we faught. She previously mention that everyone else she was with would go to the strip club. So later that night she called me and told me that she actually went with them. It was her first time. She was drinking and i guess her work friends that she met out there decided to buy her a private show. So she nievely was taken to a back room and was confused until the stripper started groping my girlfriend. Grinded. And danced and eventually took my girlfriends breasts out and sucked on them. Also blew through her pants o her vagina. She imediately regretted it and stopped drinking till everyone was ready to leave. When she got back to her hotel he immediately called me to tell me and that she was sorry. ( was was crying hysterically) my question is I guess should I forgive her or not. I mean things to note she was pissed off at me. Very nieave and she was in toxicated. She didn't touch the stripper. Or so anything else. But she didn't stop the girl for the whole 3 songs. What hurts most is that she let her do it all. And that she would even go to a strip club with a bunch of guys in the first place.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2010): Had it been a male stripper, the story would have been different. But since it was a female stripper, I would forgive and ask her not to do this again.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (22 July 2010):
I think you can afford to forgive her for this. She was obviously naive and didn't know what was going on, and she phone you straight after crying a lot.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2010): Aw, poor girl. I would be mortified if that happened to me, would probably freeze up as well if I was very drunk. Sometimes situations get kind of scary and it's hard to know what to do. At least she didn't cheat on you or anything, and she told you immediately. Sounds like the stripper took advantage of a very drunk client. I would personally feel violated and need my boyfriends support dealing with it if anything like this happened to me.
Trust that she has learned from this mistake, and will not do it again. If she ever does anything like this again, then you can probably assume it's a pattern but if it's a one time mistake, please try to forgive her.
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reader, Oregongrl1 +, writes (22 July 2010):
Well i think ok forgive this time sounds like she really is sorry and if it happens again well 2 strikes your out! because she really might be sorry for this one and if you walk away now you will never know that?
Good Luck!
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reader, RAINORFIRE +, writes (22 July 2010):
 Your mad because your GF went to a strip club and got groped by another girl... and your not mad that you weren't there.... and that you missed the coolest thing that you could have ever seen besides the raisng of the titanic...
my opinion forgive her and beg her to let you watch next time...
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reader, Sweet-thing +, writes (22 July 2010):
 I'm guessing she's young and got caught up in the moment. Forgiveness is totally up to you, but her behavior indicates a total lack of self control and an absence of judgement. I think you've got your work cut out for you with this one. She has a wild side, and I suspect there will be many more "Ooops" in her future.
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