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anonymous
writes:Hi there, usually i think most guys would think was good, as I cant come during sex at all - therefore no problems etc. I've been having sex for a few years now, have a g-friend of a year. I love having sex but it just doesnt stimulate me enough to come. As a result, I often lose my hard-on after about 10-20 mins. This is beginning to slightly annoy my partner because she really just wants to make me come! She's not angry or anything, and shes really supportive of the whole situation. I just want to come for her benefit as well as mine.I can come during masturbation. But cant from sex or even during oral.I'm quite worried about this whole thing - because obviously it has complications for later life- children etc, and was wondering if any of you have had similar probs/know of anyone with similar probs/ or any suggestions. I will see a Dr. but i just wanted to see if anyone knew anything at all first!Sorry for the essay! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2007): Only after 10 minutes?
I have often lost mine after a few minutes, or sometimes after an hour, but either way, there's plenty of ways to keep it up.
Find a position that feels the same as masturbation, or one that feels better (yes, there are a lot!).
Ask your girlfriend to do exercises to tighten her muscles down there.
As a last resort, head to the doctors, let him know what's going on, and no doubt you can (like I did) get a prescription for helping out.
It's an invaluable resource, and every time I use a pill, it maintains for hours or until I come (even after sometimes, if we keep going ;))
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2007): no offense, but maybe you guys just arent right for each other.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2007): Explore new positions or techniques. Maybe you can stroke yourself and insert your penis into your girlfriend when you're ready to come.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2007): Well i had a partner and he would always loose his borner during sex and i would help him by just play wit as you would use another would which that would get him hard but when we would start to have sex again after a min or 2 he would loose it again....some guys have this thing that only jackin him off would do the the trick....but maybe you should go see a doc....maybe it could be a physical problem or mental problem
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