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writes:well im 16, and i met this guy when i was about 12-13, we really really clicked and we started seeing eachother... since we went to different schools we didnt see as much of eachother as we liked and there was a period when were we didnt see eachother for a bit, we were like 14 and then he had sex when he was drunk with a girl that night. it really hurt me so i instantly finished with him... and we still stayed friends.he saw me randomly one day, it was a bit awkward and he text me saying how he missed me etc (this was like 4 months ago), and hes telling my friends how much he has liked me for all this time and he hasnt stopped how it was mistake, but we now have been getting closer and closer and his feelings are still the same and hes absolutely gorgeous and lovely and i have started to get feelings for him, he says that he has changed and i have seen a change in him, and he said i was the only girl to make him cry when i got a boyfriend. i do like him, but my trust is hard to gain back, i know its been along time and i should get over it, but its hard should i just forgive and forget and give it another shot? plus im still a virgin and i dont want to be pushed into anything either, so what should i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2008): I agree that everyone deserves a second chance and if you truly like him you should go for it. You are still young so enjoy it as much as you can. Why not try dating him for a while or even given him a trial period to see how it goes and if you really feel he has changed go for it!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2008): i think everyone deserves a second chance but may it crystal clear to him that it is the last time. don't be treated like a doormat. ok forgiving and forgetting once ot twice is ok but 3 or 4 he will think all he needs to do is cry and you'll take him back. believe me i've learnt it! good luck!!
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