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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:I'm a sophmore in high school currently but I've liked this guy since freshmen year. He was in my English one class and we had a lot of the same interests; music and stuff. Now, I'm a chubby girl then most and the fact the were the same size-ish makes me really happy cause a guy like this is super rare. He's super sweet and I live for his smile. But at the end of freshmen year, when I finally made my move, he had just broken it off with this girl. She considers me a friend but I wouldn't give her a kidney in a million years. She's kinda slutish. She's way bigger then him, height and girth wise. So he bragged to her that I like him and then she texted me about him, telling me how great he was and how she was glad they worked it all out. Then she offered to step aside and give me a chance with him. That made me sick. If he was really amazing to her, she wouldn't do such a stupid thing. Over the summer they broke up again and I got a little more flirty with him. Sadly, he's not the guy that catches on to being hit on. When they got back together, it was like a stab to the heart. Now she makes out with him behind my back, forces her friendship on me, and won't even let him talk and/or text me. It really sucks but I still want him. The girl and I are in the same English two class and have a few of the same friends. My big question is if I should just ignore him now? Or fight for him, even if I get a nasty label around school?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (29 December 2010):
You basically need to ignore him. It's clear that he wasn't interested in your, I'm afraid. He just used your feelings and made her come back to him, which kind of shows him up.
Also, never ruin your reputation. You'll get a bad reputation in school, and it might well follow you on out of school. I know three girls who cheated or stole boyfriends between five and ten years ago, and even now, after all that time, no decent guys will bother with them. Everyone thinks they'll just cheat, so the only guys they can get are the rubbish ones.
So, don't wreck your reputation as a woman, or you'll never get the decent guy you want. And don't chase this guy, as he's made it more than clear he's not interested.
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