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writes: Is it normal to enjoy attention from others, of the opposite sex, while married ? I assume it is. I mean, if you don't act on it, of course. More exactly, is it normal to " flirt" for lack of a better word, when you innocently find yourself in the company of somebody who obviusly likes you? What I mean by flirt, is just enjoy the situation and converstion, knowing it's not going anywhere. Should a married person feel guilty if they know somebody fancies them and it feels good. Are we obligated to put a barrieer up around us in that situation or can a person just enjoy the experience of feeling attractive for that moment.Thanks E.S.
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reader, Phyrekiss +, writes (14 December 2005):
It is completly normal, even for married individuals to enjoy looking/flirting with the opposite sex. If your partner is comfortable in you doing so, and both of you are confident that this is all it is. It is completely harmless if all you are doing is enjoying the situation/conversation. Where you draw the line is completely up to the both of you.
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