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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I met a man last year while he was on vacation in the states (from South Africa) we had insane chemistry and hooked up a couple of times during his week long stay).We stayed in touch after he left (facebook, emails etc) Usually friendly interactions, a little flirtatious, but often just witty banter.I am not in anything serious nor is he. He spoiled me a bit because he was so good to me and now I cant find anyone that can turn me on as much ;(Around the year mark of his departure. He started to contact me a bit more and push to a more sexual tone. Little by little things changed and we started talking dirty etc..use your imagination.Last weekend he actually called me to have phone sex. Not on skype, so I know its not cheap. I was really suprised he would do that. Anyway, it was great I'm happy with our connection sexually. BUT of course I want more. Yet I dont know if he does. Im not going to move there but he did mention the prospect of coming out again. No set plans.Should I even pursue something more with him or is it just a sex thing? Advice please.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (8 January 2012):
 My guess is that it is just a sex thing. You can try and pursue more if you want to, you won't know until you ask.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2012): I think you already know the answer but you are only looking for confirmation.
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