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female
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36-40,
*aetitia
writes:I've been chatting with this guy I met on a dating website since the end of February. At one point he asked me if I wanted to meet each other and I said yes. Then he said, let's aim to meet at some point in May, because I will be BUSY in April. I thought that this was strange, but said "ok". We continued chatting during April and over East weekend, he told me that he had a friend visiting him and that he would be busy. As soon as the "friend" was gone, he resumed chatting with me frequently and started to hint that we should finally meet up (for a first time). Then he posted photos on FB of his Easter weekend of him and a girl, hanging out, holding hand, etc. She looked like more than a friend and I asked him who she was. He said that he met her though the same dating website and that she was the friend who was visiting him for 2 weeks, while staying over at his place. I asked if they kissed and he said yes. He said that they weren't dating and that this was unlikely to happen because they live in different countries and that he might never see her again, but that he likes her. He also said that he has been talking to her for a lot longer than before he even sent me a first message. However, after I asked him all these questions about this girl, we ended up in a fight and I told him that I didn't like the fact that he has been making all these plans to see this girl for a while and yet scheduling times to meet with other girls (like me). He thought that I was implying that he was a player and called me a "total bitch", that he "felt stunned because I thought I knew who he is, just because he met one girl", also that "he didn't deserve this treatment by me" and that "he wasn't going to defend himself anymore" and then he said "bye". I didn't say anything more after and I left the conversation at this point. I don't know what to make out of that...Was I being a total bitch for questioning him and telling him that what he was doing wasn't nice? Was he on the wrong? Should I end with him or try to talk to him again?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2011): I'd leave it as you are obviously looking for something more genuine.
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reader, janna03  +, writes (10 May 2011):
stop talking for this guy coz really he is a player, really forget about him, coz the fact that he is posting photos like that, it means he is not interested in you, coz he never think of how you will feel if u saw that. soo better to forget him..
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