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writes: I really like this boy and I have known him for quite a while, I dunno if he likes me or not. I have his email adress and my question is: should I email him and tell him how I feel? I have never talked to him on msn before, and not really talked to him face to face. The other problem is that I think he has a girlfriend. And I am really scared to send him an email. Do you think I should do it? Thanks x
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 September 2007): Definitely not by email...it doesn't sound like you know him that well, and the worst thing would be to tell him and have him show the email to all his mates (or worse, his girlfriend if he has one!). Anything written down can come back to haunt you and the last thing you want is a confession about your feelings going around to everyone else for the next 6 months. Is there a way you can send a 'joke' or something else to a group of people on email, and include him in on it? That way, he might email you back and you can begin chatting to him that way? Other than this, you should try to talk to him face to face a bit more and flirt with him (go on, it's much more fun to flirt face to face!). Best of luck XX
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reader, Gemini1506  +, writes (9 September 2007):
Btw how well do you know him?
If it is not that well before you tell him then i say get to know him more. You might find something you dont like about him or you could realise he is what you are looking for.
if you do know him well find out if he has a girlfriend. If he does leave it till he's single.
But i wouldnt tell him by email, do it in a more personal way so he knows your serious
Best of luck
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reader, tinkerbell01 +, writes (9 September 2007):
 NO dont send it. try speaking to him face to face first, just the ordinary hi how are you type of thing, that way you will be able to see how he acts around you.and also find out if he has a girlfriend for sure too. Emails are like texts they get pasted around friends and if he dosnt like you and you've send him a heart felt email. thats what will happen and not only will you be gutted he dosnt like you but you be left embarsed by the email, oh and in trouble with his girlfried(if he has one). xx
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