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female
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30-35,
*rincess_sweety
writes: The other day a friend of mine asked me to be his first.I met him at school, we had a couple of classes together the past 2 years and he's a nice guy. I lost my virginity a couple of months ago and have and sex with a total of 3 guys with in the past 3months. The first was with my then boyfriend, second was with a friend of mine(comforting sex) and the third was with a guy i was dating(stopped dating beacuse it was a purely sexual relationship). I don't want to be the girl who has sex with just anyone, but am considering having sex with my friend now. I asked him why me and not anyone else, he said he trusts me and no one else is special enough. Should I do it? Why or why not?
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reader, princess_sweety +, writes (21 April 2009):
princess_sweety is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhmm lot's to think about.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2009): If you don't want to be labeled "the girl who has sex with anyone".......then don't. Do you think your "student" won't brag?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2009): Hmmm, tough question.If you value him as a friend, ask yourself what it might do to your friendship. I don't know the whole situation, so I don't know what all the possible consequences are.Does he just want to lose his virginity, and get some experience before getting in a "serious relationship", or does he actually really like you and want to be in a relationship with you?If he might want to be your boyfriend, and you don't want that, don't do it.If you are good friends, and you won't be hurt if you see him with another girl a week later, (and he won't be hurt if he sees you with another guy a week later), then I don't see anything wrong with it.One last note: Are there any girls interested in him, and has he been too oblivious to notice (quite likely if he's a nice guy). Perhaps the best thing you can do as a friend is to help him find a girlfriend.
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