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writes:I have known a guy for a few years who shows me interest and then withdraws. He leads me on and then ignores my messages. The final straw was he acted interested again, ignored my message yet has been on the dating sites. Should I delete him off Facebook? I don't want to keep checking his profile and letting him see what I am up to. But by leaving him on there it shows I am not bothered. Then deleting him would show him I am annoyed. I have deleted him from my phone so he can't see when I have last been on What's app. I want to move on and feel he has disrespected me. What is best to do?
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reader, Youcannotbeserious  +, writes (27 December 2016):
 A new year is coming up - the perfect time to have a clear out and bin anything/anyone that is not useful or does not bring you joy.
Throw him out with the rubbish and don't be tempted to let him back in to waste more of your time.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (27 December 2016):
 In answer for your first question, YES, you should delete him from facebook. We should always ensure there is limited space in our lives for timewasters and game players.
You are correct when you say you feel he has disrespected you, and who cares what he thinks when you delete him, he isn't worth your worrying over.
Good luck!
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (26 December 2016):
 I think you should delete and block him on FB and STOP checking his profile.
You know he really DOESN'T care, so don't worry if he "thinks" you are annoyed with him, YOU won't have to deal with this yo-yo anymore so what he thinks is totally irrelevant.
Let him GO. Cut him out of your life. NOT to "punish him" or "show him" anything, but for yourself, so that YOU can have a "fresh" start without him.
Screw what he may or may not think.
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