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*immiluvb
writes:So if you have read the previous messages you will be able to help me with this. So after all this with this guy I was dating I goes on Facebook today and he is in a relationship with another girl.. yess I'm completely shocked and beyond hurt. But I say nothing to him about it but I did text his roommate just to see if this is real he says he believe it is and then he also tells me that Jeremy the guy I was dating was talking to him and some girls on his track team about how he misses me. Like he even comments on my status that I put up saying that don't get attached to anyone cause you never know when you have to walk alone. He comments and say shut up lol. Like it was funny I reply back like you shut up! Then he continues to say stuff saying I'm messing up.. wtf how is this possible. Anyhow I am done with him but I'm debating if I should delete him completely, like from Facebook my phone everything. Also I wanna make him eat his words so badly any tips on how I can make him think about what he has done?
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reader, honestman  +, writes (4 April 2011):
Then go ahead and delete him.But attempt no revenge or making him eat his words. There are plenty of good guys out there.
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reader, kimmiluvb +, writes (4 April 2011):
kimmiluvb is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWe were exclusive. We agreed we even fell in love..
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reader, honestman +, writes (4 April 2011):
So you were dating, but not were exclusively dating right?Dating someone does not mean that he or she is in a committed relationship, unless you both agree to.If while he was dating with you, he decided to be in a relationship with other girl, I don't see a problem. If you both didn't explicitly talk about exclusive dating, then I don't see any problem at all.If you like him, I wouldn't delete him. I wouldn't even try make him "eat his words" because that is very negative for him and for you, and you will not win anything, nor win him back.Just move on. There are plenty of guys out there.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2011): Yeah block this a$$hole from your life completely. He plays games and is about as annoying as a Mrs Jones' pomerian down the street... get rid of this guy, any mutual friends who are close to both of you, and move on. Dont make him eat his words so to speak. Dont stoop down to his level. In some cases, it is necessary to communicate with people on the level in which they are most familiar, however, I dont see that applying here given the particular situation. Best on this.
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