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writes:my ex, which i think we're back together already, is using me for intimacy, and even though this really good guy is dieing for me, i don't want him, i want my ex. i keep on going back to him cuz i feel that with out him i will die. he is older and i love him, but we r really intimate together, and we started to fast. we broke up before i left town, we had a HUGE fight and he ended it with me, and i emailed him today (im still out of town), we started talking as friends, then after a while he said he wanted to email me a picture of his penis, and other things that were really intimate. so now i don't no if i should continue with him, or if i should leave him. i really want to continue this, with out him, i would die
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2009): im 15 about to be 16, and hes 18 about to be 19. and i have pictures on a secret email with his pictures from the past. and im really mature for my age in everything except with him. when we 'break up' im so wise with what i do, but since hes older and i have to impress him, things r complicated and i just dont no what to do
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reader, jessica04 +, writes (26 March 2009):
 You will not die. Your feelings just seem so strong because your little body is pumped up with hormones that your underdeveloped brain cannot properly process yet (Im a psychology major, I know this stuff).
Honestly, if you know he is using you, then why would you want to be with him? How old are you two?
You don't have to be with the other guy either. There are plenty more fish out in the sea and another will surely come your way that you like just as much and that won't use you for sex.
I know it feels like the end of the world will commence if you cannot be with him, but this is just the start of your life. don't sell yourself short by thinking you aren't good enough for more than one chance at love.
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