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writes:I am the biggest idiot on this planet I have messed up a great reletionship not once but twice and lost the person I love. She is kind generous sexy and very good looking the reason I've lost her is totally my fault. I have issues from past relationships and past events with my kids that I took out on her and was selfish and very insensitive towards her. I think about her every day from when I wake up to when I go to sleep. I think she is now with someone else and it's killing me. I want her back so much but I don't want to hurt her anymore than I have done already. I don't know what to do for the best I want to fight for her but other times I think she is better off without me. I don't know what to do. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the thoughts mate. I'm pretty sure she is with someone else. we exchnaged texts a while ago and I ended one text by saying I hoped she found the person she deserved and she told me she already had. Take your point bout what is said in the heat of the moment. Thing is I really liked her kids and I am sure her kids and mine would really get on well. It was just me and my faults and my past that stopped that from happening.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2010): It all depends on how much you want her. Do you know for sure that she is with someone else? Why not just take your chances and ask her to meet with you? the worst she could say is no. At least then you know that you have tried. If you really want her and believe you are meant to be together then you will fight for another chance. As for things being said; they always are in the heat of the moment. Whatever the problem was to do with her kids, if you love her you will have to tell her that you will make good that too. Everyone else is telling you to give up and find someone else, i am just giving you another prospective on the situation. But what it comes down to is how much you want to be with her and how much you are prepared to do to get that chance. Only you can make that choice. Good luck mate.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHow do I fight for her when she is with someone else? Also I'm not sure she would want anything to do with me things were said when we split re my relationship with her kids. I know I've done bad.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2010): What makes you think you would hurt her again?, surely if you feel that way about her and if she gave you another chance you would pull out all the stops to make good all the bad. You would have to put her first above all others, are you really prepared to do that? If the answer is a definate yes, then perhaps you should fight for her.
I know if I was in your shoes I would.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2010): True as they say you dont know what you had until it has gone,you obviously did not treasure her let another man do where you have failed
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reader, Brunel  +, writes (27 March 2010):
She is better off with out you. Leave her alone and let her get on with her life. Why would she want you back anyway?
Find someone new.
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