Should I Continue to Converse with Her ?

A male age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Okay im in college right now and i met this really nice girl who goes to my former high school. She is 18 and was suppose to graduate with my class of 2011, but her parents are military such as mine and i guess she somehow ended up as a junior this school year in hs. We first started talking then one day i went to visit her while she was at work and it went really well and the first thing she did was give me a big tight hug. We started talking since she was on break and wouldnt stop smileing and playing with her hair. The whole time she looked me in the eyes without looking away. Eventually she had to get back to work so i went in bought something @ her register and while i was walking out the door i looked at her while i was walking away and she kept looking at me the whole time until i walked out of the door. We still talk, and she even wanted to date me when we where both softmore in highschool but she asked a guy who i know who lied to her and siad i had a girlfriend which was not true. But there is one problem now... She has a boyfriend since october of last year and i think he is controllive or takes up all her time. Everytime i ask to do something she cant go or is busy. But i feel as though she really wants to go and be with me somehow. One day i winked ex : ;) on her facebook status and her "Boyfriend" who is like 16 cursed me out on facebook and i laughed the whole time. i dont even kno him and he called me gay and a faggot which is not tru. I really didnt care, But she liked his facebook staus that said that was talking trash about me which to me hurt :( She then rang up my phone with 6 text messages saying she is sorry and she hates how her boyfriend fights all the time etc. its only been a week and a half sense then and now we talk still and everything seems to go by fine. But i got my friend to annoymously txt her to see if i can get info out of her and she says ohh i love my boyfriend etc etc. And sometimes she said call me and i did and claim that i never called her. And when i call her and she picks up it goes well. But once she said id call you back and she didnt and the same thing happend today :( I want to get to know her better and i have feelings for her but am i getting played, and is it right to not talk to somebody because your "BF" doesnt want you 2 ? I just dont want to waste my time. And she allways puts off things when i ask to go somewhere with her. What should i do ?

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