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Should I continue our 'thing'?

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Question - (28 May 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 29 May 2011)
A age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Well, hello...

Okay, there's this guy and we've dated, but broke up after a month. We continued to talk and we became a 'thing', we act like we're dating, but we're not. We've been a 'thing' for over a year. ...but he's going to college soon, leaving in the fall, he'll be in a different state. Should I continue with this 'thing'? I know he's going to be gone and I'll be stuck here, constantly thinking about him and missing him, but he'll be happy with girls every where and probably completely forget me. God I like him, but I'm not even good enough for him anyway.

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A female reader, lysha United Kingdom +, writes (29 May 2011):

lysha agony aunttalk to him hun, tell him how you feel, you never know he may be feeling the same, has he had girlfriends or has it just be yours and his thing because if its just been you then the best bets are he really does like you, just doesnt know how to say and he knew he was going away so didnt know what to do, dont try and say your not good enough for him , dont put yourself down, just go for it, you never know until you try, good luck hun

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (28 May 2011):

aunt honesty agony auntOk what makes you say you are not good enough for him? What makes him so special that you are inferior to him? Take control here and ask him what he wants. You are both not in a full relationship therefore I am guessing with him going away it probably will just dye down and be forgotten about. Have you spoke to him about where the both of you are heading? That is a conversation that you both should have had a long time ago.

Maybe he didnt want to get in to a serious relationship because he knew that he was heading away soon. Talk to him and see what he wants in the future. Tell him how you feel and see what happens, you will never know until you talk to him about how you feel. Good Luck.

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