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*myourangel
writes:Hello guys, I really need help, first of all I'm gay, so here's what happened to me. Last night I went to a club with my best friend and I found my ex-boyfriend so I said hi to him and we ended up dancing and kissing for a while, so later on we had a conversation about certain things, everything seemed to be alright so I asked him if he has had sex with other guys, and he said yes, I've had so that put me really down, even though we're ex-boyfriends that made me feel so bad, I adopt a different attitude towards him, but we kept dancing for a while, he kept repeating me that he doesn't like my best friend over and over again and that wasn't nice to hear from him, oh well so after we danced and all that we had a hot moment, but as we were drunk, he didnt seem to be ok, so I asked him, "Are you ok?" so he stop kissing me and said yeah, u know what let's stop, so I was like what happened?!, then we went outside and he said you know we're friends right?, so I stayed outside of the club with him and he was like he didn't wanna talk, telling me you should go find your friend and I said well, I haven't seen you in a while so I'd like to stay with you for a bit, so he wasn't really talking, I left my friend for him, thing that I shouldn't have done :( so, after some time without saying anything, I said I'm going back to check on my friend, I looked at him straight to his eyes and said bye, so he did too, so I was feeling sad but I was dancing and trying to have fun, so after a while I went downstairs to try to look for him, so I sit for a bit, he saw me and he went outside, well then I popped out and I saw him leaving the club, I dunno if he misinterpreted the "bye" as something like "I don't wanna see you again, this is my goodbye", I didn't really mean it in that way, so I dunno what to do now, should I call him, text him or just leave things this way, I still love him so much and this situation is killing me inside, plus the fact that he was with someone else is making things worse for my heart.PLEASE I NEED ADVICE.THANK YOU.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2009): Well..it depends on the reason why you two broke up in the first place. Maybe he still has felings for you but doesn't know how you're feeling about this? I'd say you guys should just talk about this and make things clear. If you two are still attatched to each other then I'd say sure? why not atleast try to get back together......if not then just move on~ well GL
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reader, linz09  +, writes (24 August 2009):
 hummmmm Well to be honest this ex boyfriend of yours sure knows how to press your buttons and uses little mind game tactics on you..Kissing then stopping and saying no lets just be friends...He knows you still love him and he's playing you because of that, which is so unfair and cruel.stop stop. stop. running after him and don't text him.If he had true deep feelings for you he wouldn't treat you in this way and get you all worked up confused and upset..would he?...Hard to do I know, but I would move on and put this episode down to experience..:)
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reader, starfairy +, writes (23 August 2009):
 I would leave it, contacting him is just going to keep causing you pain, it doesn't sound like he's interested the way you are...Just move on, try to forget him...
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