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writes:I am really having a problem in believing my boyfriend still. He is going to a concert on friday with one of his friends. So he says he name is Brian. He has spoken to him a few times while I was around, but won't finish the conversation until I leave his place. If I have the number, can I call the number anonymously to see if a guy does answer and pretend it is a wrong number. And if it is a woman, ask for the so called friend that he is going to the concert with.Also, since I last asked, I also recently wrote to his last ex-girl friend regarding what really happend. They really only dated for about 2 1/2 months on and off. And he told me he was madly in love with her, wanted to marry her, she bought the diamond and left him before Christmas. Do you think this is wrong?
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reader, salvation  +, writes (17 April 2008):
i would never recommend checking up on a guy like that it just shows that you dont trust him and makes you seen controlling best not to do that. I know how you feel but i think talking to him about this will help you more than being sneaky. Good luck.
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reader, TELLULAH +, writes (17 April 2008):
 Oh dear!! you dont trust him at all do you?
I can only say that if my fella found out that I had checked up on him like that, there would be one almighty row. The trouble with feeling like you do at the moment is that you will end up driving yourself nut's. Think of it rationaly, does he have any reason to lie to you?, has he lied to you in the past?, Do you get insecure easily?. I only ask because its so easy to get things out of proportion when you are felling insecure. And lets face it if he wanted to have an affair behind your back he would do it no matter how much you check up on him.
I am like you, I find it really hard to trust a man. But I have learnt that the more you upset yourself worring about what they might be getting up too, the more misserable you become.
No one can garantee that he wont hurt you, but you can gaurd yourself by not letting it rule your life.
XX Hope all is OK
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