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writes:I met a man about 3 months ago and I really started to like him. I didnt sleep with him as I only knew him two weeks but he kept making suggestive remarks and then got cross whenb I didnt. However when he got home we e mailed a few times and he seemed interested to meet up which we did. We had a quick bite to eat then he went and see you again. I told him I liked him and he got nasty and said I must never see him again as he doesnt want to get involved. I thought he liked me a bit - I dont mean overboard - but why did he care so much and get nasty that I hadnt slept with him then? or was I just any old body would do?he isnt married as I have his home address and phone number and everything. I have e mailed several times but when he did reply it was jsut basic stuff on what he was doing and his plans. He hasnt replied for some time and I realsie he is leading a life-but I feel I missed an opportunity to sleep with him and now want to give it a go, do you suggest I contact him and say look we have one life-shall we have a fling and see what he says. Reply to this Question
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reader, Friday  +, writes (24 July 2008):
 Are you positive that it's his real phone number or home address? Maybe he doesn't want a commitment, maybe he's just interested in a fling. Some men honestly don't want to get involved with women, there are thousands of reasons. Also, why have a 1 time with this guy who obviously does not want anything out of you besides sex? He'd probably get cross if you called him after sex or expected him to stay the night after you had sex with him. Don't break your own heart on this one or your own morals. One night of sex could lead to an unwanted pregnancy, an unwanted STD, and a lifetime of hurt from some psycho wishy-washy guy that can't decide if he wants to get laid or not.
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