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female
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30-35,
*idsummer
writes:I met this guy abt 2 years ago, and we hung out a few times but unfortunately I wasnt ready for relationship so I let him go. Now recently we have talked again, and he told me he still liked me and that he would love to be my bf and he even went as far as saying future husband. I have matured a lot from the past two years n since i already know him and do like him I thought it could be easy to start something special again.Unfortunately,thats not what has happened. He takes so long to answer txts he sometimes doesnt even talk to me first at all. I know texting habits vary from person to person n if there busy or not. But if u liked someone at least u could send them hey, plus he is online very often.We have been on one date and it went well, he isnt very affectionate so i had to kind of make the first move but then he was into it. My question is should I tell him why he has been acting like this or should i give it 2 more weeks?ThanksBtw im 21 and he's 31.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2015): Have you guys had sex? If so, is this when the change happened? He could have gotten what he wanted from you, and moved on. Or realize you are not the person he thought you were and is not interested anymore.
Also, now that you like him, you do not seem to be a chase anymore. He was attracted to the chase and now he has you. And you are even contacting him first even though he behaves in a way you don't like.
Sit back, and wait for him to contact you until you guys are in an exclusive relationship. Do not contact him first until then.
When you respond to him be happy and have a nice talk.
And no, I don't think you should approach him with anything.
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reader, noerifbnwofbn +, writes (11 March 2015):
u guys are only 10 years apart and u guys are also adults. i think u should confront him and tell him how u feel. if he likes u then you u go for it then
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reader, MSA +, writes (11 March 2015):
 I believe talk is cheap. A man will SHOW you how interested he is in you. You will be able to tell from his actions (i.e how often he calls, visits, little things he does for you) how serious he is about you and being with you.
I would hold off on making contact or setting up dates. Take a step back and wait for him to contact you. If after a month or so there doesn't appear to be much progress, you can decide whether you want to approach him with the question of what your status is.
Good luck!
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