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age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I've been with my girl for a few years and we've had our share of problems. Now just last month before the holiday she went to New York for a week to be with family. Now she's gone back for the holidays again but now I'm noticing she only contacts me during the day but at night no call or response to text messages. She would rather text message than speak. She still wants to send messages of "I love you". and I go along with it. Before she left she did spend a few nights up to 3 or 4 in the morning on the computer thought nothing of it. She pushes buttons but I'm not one to argue. No unusual spending but always saying she has no money, but has cash on her. I'm very suspicous but don't want to make accusations. If confront her, I know denial is the first option. What do you suggest???
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reader, PrettyLady17 +, writes (31 December 2008):
 that does sound weird. you should sit her down and talk to her. ask her kinda casually
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reader, katatonik +, writes (31 December 2008):
 Definitely sounds a little weird. Actually, I think you are best served by simply asking her about what you have noticed. Start with the restrictive phone schedule. If she is up to anything, it's doubtful that she will come right out and tell you, but her response to questions that shouldn't bother someone innocent of any wrongdoing should alert you as to whether or not your suspicions are justified. Good luck =]
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