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writes: Should I change my email just to be safe? I recently had to change my cell phone number because my ex wouldn't leave me alone after I asked him to so many times. Anyway, we were engaged, and when we had one of our engagement parties we decided to invite one of his ex-girlfriends that he hadn't talked to for a long time, but was with her for about 3 years. I'm pretty sure she left him, but he says it was her parents who made them break up because they were rich political people who threatened to stop supporting her if she stayed with him. Anyway, I don't know the whole story, but I do know that I had to break up with him too, because he was emotionally abusive and starting to get physical. I still loved him, but he never admitted to doing anything wrong, just apologized sometimes but in the same breath said I did things wrong too. So, to get to my point, should I change my email? Because even though he hasn't emailed me since I changed my number I'm afraid in a few years or even sooner I will get an email from him out of the blue saying he is engaged and inviting me to his engagement party-by evite-like the invitations we made. He has no class, and doesn't seem to care about my feelings which is proved because on Christmas Eve he texted me saying he was dating a new girl and that she actually cared about him, trying to make me feel bad and obviously because he was hurt and mad I wasn't returning his calls. However, if he ever does change into a better person in the future and I change my email, then he will never have a way of getting in contact with me-of course he has my sister's number and my friend's number. So, what should I do? I can't take any more pain from him, now or ever.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (5 February 2008):
 If you feel troubled by it, change your e-mail. Since he has not e-mailed you ,you can leave your e-mail as it is. Only when you get abusive e-mails from him , then you change them.
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