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writes:My boyfriend of 2 years had a dream that he kissed a girl and felt her up. In the middle of it he stopped and told the girl that he had a girlfriend that he loved and walked away. 2 nights before that dream he dreamt that I gave oral sex to some random guy.What does this mean? Does my boyfriend want to cheat? PLEASE help
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reader, Saddened123 +, writes (5 February 2008):
Saddened123 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks guys, you've been really helpful
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2008): Its only a dream. Just because he dreamt it up doesnt mean he wants to cheat on you... Even when guys arent dreaming they think of girls all the time. They're men... they can't help it. Its only second nature to them. But when he's dreaming, its not like he WANTS to dream it. Therefore, it doesnt mean he wants to cheat on you. Its just a dream. A figment of the mind while you sleep. Thats it!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2008): Dreams aren't reality. I dream of having sex with other guys all the time, I'm sure my boyfriend dreams of having sex with other girls too. It's just a dream. It's not like you can control what you dream about! It doesn't mean he wants to cheat. Don't worry about it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2008): Well why don't you try and talk to him or something? You don't have to let it go if you feel strongly about it or are worried. If he's managed to tell him about his dreams, you could maybe try telling him how you feel about them? You could start off a conversation by saying, ''You know those dreams you were saying you had? Well, I was just kinda wondering, you don't think they mean anything do they?'' Something like that, honey.
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reader, Saddened123 +, writes (5 February 2008):
Saddened123 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for the response. I do worry though. :O( Can't help it and iy also kinda makes me mad. I will try and let this go. thank you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2008): I totally understand why you're so worried, but I quite recently dreamt that I came *this* close to making out with a different boy to my long term boyfriend, and then I stopped. This is kind of a similar dream, and yet, I don't want to cheat on him at all. I guess it seems kind of naughty and strangely appealing to take the risk, and see what would happen, but it means nothing!
I suspect this is the same with your boyfriend, I doubt it means anything. Especially since he told you! (He must of told you...?) This means he's not guilty about it, and probably doesn't expect you to think anything of it, as he didn't think anything of it himself. Try not to worry, it's probably just a dream. He doesn't want to cheat.
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