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writes:Even though this is a few weeks old i need help. My girlfriend who i have had for three months went over to her best friends house and they both swam naked in the pool and her friend "touched" her and when she told me this i asked. "Why did you let her?" she replied, "Because it felt good." I didn't know what to say. i was infuriated so i acted like it didn't bother me. Lately we've been getting along pretty well and our sex life has gotten more fun and adventurous. Should i care that she has done sexual things with her best friend but still told me? And when i tried to state that how would she feel if i let another girl touch me all she said was sorry. Like it was supposed to change and fix things. Now I live in Texas and i can let a bunch of things slide but this sticks in my head. She says she loves me but i just dont know what to do. Please Help? Advice? Anything that can help in this situation =)
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reader, Mitchell1978  +, writes (20 July 2011):
Women who cheat and show no remorse can never be trusted, i would stay away...
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (20 July 2011):
The she cheated, and she doesn't care at all. Has she even cut contact with him?
To be honest, this girl's sounding worse and worse.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionFor those that dont know, we have stayed together through this but for some reason it still bothers me. We are still dating though
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWe are still together we havent broken up.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (20 July 2011):
Were you two together when her best friend did this? Because if you were, then she cheated and you should dump her.
If you weren't together, realistically you can't really complain.
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reader, stashrocks  +, writes (20 July 2011):
well i dont mean to sound rude but she sounds really immature to do something like that when she is in a relationship, if she really loves you than what you give her should be enough and she shouldnt be doing things like that even if it is with her best friend, i would count that as cheating cause it doesnt matter if was with another boy or girl its not with you. I guess how deal with this is completly your choice but you have to make your feelings for this matter clear to her and let her know that it hurt you and you didnt appreciate it, just approach the matter calmy with her i hope things work out for you good luck
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