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writes:I am a 21 year old female and I've been dating this guy who is older than me for 10 months. We have broken up a couple of times and gotten back together. We will be fine for a few weeks and then he disappears, doesn't call or answer phone calls from me for a week or so. When I ask him what's he been up too. He automatically gets upset and says I'm trying to smother him. I feel like I am giving him 100% and he is giving me 10%. Should I just let go?? Reply to this Question
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reader, JustJacie +, writes (15 April 2010):
JustJacie is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for the reply I kinda knew I should let it go but its better to get advice from the outside sometimes.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (15 April 2010):
Yes. This won't work. On/off relationships with a person who isn't fully committed won't get past the on/off stage. Let him go and find someone who will commit.
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reader, bruce lee  +, writes (15 April 2010):
 Ask him if he ever thinks about other people, and if he gives you a sarcastic answer, tell him that the relationship will be finished unless he starts to show some respect.
That will get a response from him. Do it over the phone so he can't throw a punch though.
Plenty of men treat women like dirt. Don't let them get away with it!
Good luck with it.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (15 April 2010):
 He is your priority while you are his options. This relationship is very lopsided and you would be better off dropping him and moving on.
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