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anonymous
writes:my bf always does the calling everyday and everynight. im afraid that time will come that he will felt bored about the situation, as if its a responsibility rather than his likeing to talk to me. i always want to call him sometime but i dont want him to think that im clingy and possesive...am i right of thinking this way? he is very special for me but dont just want to loss him... Reply to this Question
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reader, LauraE  +, writes (4 July 2007):
I agree with the reply below. Maybe, he wanted to take the lead in the relationship at first, and 'playing it cool', can be wise very early on, so that you don't crowd him. But, I bet he will get the idea that you don't care very much if you carry on like it. If you are calling him less than he is calling you, then you can't be clingy. Like anonymous says - ask him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2007): OK, I know this is stupid, but why don't you ask him if he minds if you call him. Tell him you don't want to be clingy but you want to talk to him sometimes.
I think most relationships are two way. I know I would think after I had called you three or four times, I wonder why you never call me!
Good luck
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