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writes:I met this guy over the summer, its been about a month and a half. He'd call me everyday, wish me goodnight EVERY night, go out for dinner/coffee etc. Basically, everything was FAB. About 3 weeks ago, he stopped calling/texting as much, and I found myself having to call. Still..everytime I did, he seemed happy I had. A few nights ago, "HE" called saying he wanted to do something, but then when I emailed/called/txt him back, he never responded. The weekend went by (Still nothing) and my gut is telling me I won't hear from him ever again. I am furious and can't decide if I should call and confront him or just try to forget it and move on. I just don't get why he wouldn't have the balls to end it. What would you do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI just wanted to send my thanks for all of your feedback. Sometimes it really takes an outside perspective to really get me thinking clearly again...anywho, I took all of your advice and put it together - I emailed him to see if he was still breathing and got a call back a few hours later, brushing me off and saying how he'd just been very busy (for the last 2 weeks, right) and would call me later in the evening. I made the last mistake of waiting til midnight for the call that never came. This morning, I deleted every way I have to contact him. As Oldesister said...sometimes I guess it is better not having all the answers.
Again, thank you for all your responses.. xoxo
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reader, baybeegurl_x  +, writes (1 September 2008):
 he does sound like a nice guy, but my boyfriend was the same every night he wished me goodnight and everything but all of a sudden one day he stopped! and it hurts, because you get used to the same routine over and over again and maybe it get's kinda boring!
maybe he just needs some space to think or something! and i don't think he's lost interest because he called you asking if you could both go and do something, but by not responding is a bit worrying and rude, but i think it might of been an honest mistake. maybe something has happened i think you should try and find out if he is ok, and there is no harm in calling him and telling him how it's all making you feel!
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reader, Straight Up1 +, writes (1 September 2008):
 If a guy is really into a girl...he would continue his interest and contact.
This guy is wanting to move on in a different direction...perhaps has another girl on the go....but if you let him...will look at you as the back up plan or second prize.
cut the ties and move on.... if he contacts you and wants to talk and get together, its your choice then... but be very careful. Guys can be very smooth!!
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reader, Aunty Em +, writes (1 September 2008):
 I'd confront him, although i'm quite a hot headed person. Whatever you do, have it straight out with him and demand and answer in reference to his sudden downfall in contact.
If you decide against that. Oh well, he could've had something great!
Good Luck.
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