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female
age
30-35,
*arai14
writes:my boyfriend i going out with another girl from another state. when we first started going out he said that he had broken up with her.and then 2 weeks later he started calling me and telling me to break up with him. and i told him about all the stuff he told me but he denied it. then i broke up with him a month later. and all of a sudden i started going out with him again a month later even though i knew he has a girlfriend. everyone tells me i should break up with him but i cant let him go and i dont know why? i dont know what to do?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (5 July 2010):
Dump him. Come on! He lied to you, cheated on you, then you went back and now he's cheating on her. Your friends are screaming at you to dump him. You're losing self respect and dignity every moment you're not dumping him. Just cut contact, delete his numbers and never speak to him again. Then look at yourself and ask yourself why you think you should settle for a liar and a cheat. Is your esteem low? Are you happy with your life? Are you too dependent on him and not dependent on yourself enough? You need to spend time on yourself and really work at becoming a more confident person who won't settle for a third rate man. And please dump him, or other, better guys will just pass you by.
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