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writes:I've been with my boyfriend (now husband) for 6 years, there were always signs that he was cheating but, he always had and answer for everything. I caught him with lipstick on his underwear last April, we fought for several weeks, he then proposed to me and said that he loved me a lot and wanted to strenghth our relationship. I would notice text messages on his phone and in October we got married, I found out that 2 days before our wedding he slept with another woman and when we got back he called this woman up and started again, I warned him that I would leave. I also found out that he has been involved with this woman for 7 years. Should I believe him that he has finally given her up and he will never cheat on me again?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2008): Our marriage is 19 years old. My husband loves another woman for 6 years, now. She is very far away from our place. But his heart and mind is with her every single day, they talk on phone, sending SMS,e-mail each other. But he wants to live with his family, and demanding love from me. that is very hard for me to do. During these years, many times, he promised me he'd leave her, but he never did. He is just one of men for whom one wife isn't enough, he feels happy only with two women or even more.I turned myself to God for help to stay in this marriage for the kids, but the pain is overwelming. I cry almost every day, lose my memory, looking very sad and old, developed depresion, lost lots of skills, abilites,and dreams, and there is no hope for me feel happy at least for a moment. Sadness, anger,frustration is what I feel avery day every moment. Our kids are victims of this marriage. They are in pain too. I am planning to leave. I pray to God for help to work out my plans. May be your husband is one of those men? He is just like that. One wife is not enough.Do you diserve to be one of his woman ? If not, get out of there.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (20 November 2008):
 Oh he'll cheat on you again, you can bet the farm on that one.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2008): Oh no, LEAVE HIM! please do. If he hasn't given her up already he won't now. I wouldn't have even married him and his priorities are all messed up by cheating on you already then asking you to marry him thinking maybe it will be better.Thats just like a man to have an excuse for everything once they have gotten caught. He's going to keep doing it because you keep allowing it. Think about it, he's cheated already, then you got back with him, he cheated 2 days before the wedding, you still married him. He figures if he cheats all he has to do is tell you he wont do it again and you will forgive him. Leave him honey, you don't deserve to get cheated on like this. He has history with this woman, he's not gonna let it go so easily. Good luck!
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