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writes: Dear Cupid,I started a new job 4 months ago, and I met the man who I was instantly interested in. I asked somebody who knew him if he was single, and she was hesitating but she said that he was not, that it looks like things have worked out for him and his girlfriend that he had for years. Three months later he and I have started chatting a lot. I would initiate most of the chats, but he would ask me not to leave, because the conversation is so interesting. I invited him to a matinee movie, and he went with me, and told me that he was living by himself. He was much more flirtatious before the movie than afterwards. I was not sure if we were becoming friends or if there is a potential for more than this. Finally, I asked him what he is doing for Christmas just before the holidays, and he told me that his girlfriend is in another city (4 hours drive from here) and he will go and visit her and her sick father. He then suggested that we should be getting together for lunches and movies after the holidays. Is it possible that he is interested in me, or he was just being friendly? I am somewhat surprised that the girlfriend did not come up in a conversation much, much sooner.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2007): He wants to fuk u trust me thats the way lads act wen they want.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2007): hey, we all know how guys can be....jerks...they can be interested in 3 different ppl at one time...you never really know...but from what i've heard about this story...it kinda seems like he does...i say still hang around him...just dont get too close til him and his gf go seperate ways...if u do...and she finds out.. things could get pretty nasty...girls can get really competative and pretty vicious when it comes to getting o guy...or pretecting theres. give this guy some time..if he already seems interested in you then things are going good for you right now. you need to relax and let things hapen the way they're suppost to. like i said..if he already seems interested in you then for all you know he could be thinking of you at this moment or debating betwween you and his gf. hope things work out...xox
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2007): it sounds as though he just wants a bit on the side and fun , whilst his girlfriend is away. But it does seem as though he is interested , for example when you said about the conversations and going on what was basically a date, this would not have happened if there was nothing between the two of you. But do you really want to go for a guy who is already attached ?? i think that you should back away and be the bigger person !
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reader, bodylotion +, writes (28 March 2006):
 I think this lad fancy's you but doesn't want to be with you.I think he wants you both to be freinds so that he can see you everyday but in a different way.Go with this lad to the cinema or were ever he wishes to go.Don't do anything with this lad which you will regret as you know he has a girlfreind.
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reader, fiesty_chica +, writes (28 March 2006):
I'd say be careful with this situation. It's best not to carry on be-friending him especially now that he's mentioned his girlfirend. You don't want to get tangled in a love triangle. Just think of it this way: this guy has already got his own woman, but who's chasing you? Hope you make the best decision for yourself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2006): hey well he may just as well be interested in you but knows that he has a girl friend and does not want to break up and if he does like you it probablly is not enough to date you but i would just keep it at friends level until later it seems to soon to tell. but keep at it but play it safe so you wont get hurt. just support him as a friend. yes he should have mentioned that he had girl friend sooner but he may not know how you feel and thought that it was not relevent. GOOD-LUCK
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2006): honestly sweetheart i really don't think he is interested in you romantically. It sounds to me like he does like you, but just not in that way. go find someone else there are so many other guys out there that you can be happy with . TRUST ME!
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reader, pops +, writes (25 December 2005):
With a girlfriend that far away, he has to be lonely for just conversation. He is probably just seeking that in you. I say that, after some thought, because it would have been much easier for him to end the relationship with the gf, based on the distance between where they live, and the troubles they have seeing each other. Only a serious romance would keep people living that far apart together. OBviously, both of them have expectations of getting together in the future. If you enjoy his company, then spend time with him. But date other men. This guy is taken.
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reader, pops +, writes (25 December 2005):
With a girlfriend that far away, he has to be lonely for just conversation. He is probably just seeking that in you. I say that, after some thought, because it would have been much easier for him to end the relationship with the gf, based on the distance between where they live, and the troubles they have seeing each other. Only a serious romance would keep people living that far apart together. OBviously, both of them have expectations of getting together in the future. If you enjoy his company, then spend time with him. But date other men. This guy is taken.
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