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writes:Dear all,Would you be concerned if your boyfriend stopped calling you pet names and replaced with using your first name instead? I noticed my bf of 8 months as started doing this. For example instead of hello or goodnight my darling/ angel/ sweetie etc he now will just say night night(my name).Thanks. Reply to this Question
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (15 August 2012):
 ROFL at Sageoldguy... I call my fiance 'shithead boy" sometimes...
we have pet names... but we use each other's names too.
if you are concerned ask him.
maybe he called you honey sweetie or love because he had more than one GF and didn't want to mess the names up and now that you are his one and only he can use your name and not get confused....
who knows... you really do have to ask him
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reader, Candid Cally +, writes (15 August 2012):
I think it would be best if you asked him (in a casual, normal, positive tone) why he stopped, or make sure you have his undivided attention and phrase it something like this, "i really like it when you used to call me 'pet name' instead of 'given name.' I think it is special because only you call me 'pet name.'"
Most likely, he is using your given name because he likes the way it sounds and may even think it fits your personality better than the pet name he gave you. I don't think he realises how much you are troubled this. Please talk to him.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (14 August 2012):
 When my ex- stopped calling me "Pooky boy" and started calling me "Sh*t-head"... I was pretty sure that the marriage was over.....
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2012): Have you done anything to annoy him lately that you're aware of?
Maybe he's not pleased with you about something you've done.
Have a talk to him about this, only he can honestly answer your question.
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