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writes:my girlfriend says she has a crush on another girl is this okay? or should i be worried?
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reader, AuntyAlexxmo  +, writes (3 January 2011):
 Well it all depends on the type of relationship you have, if she justs looks but doesnt touch is that ok with you? And what kind of crush do you mean, there is a large difference between finding someone else attractive physically and having an emotional attraction to them, i know hich i think is worse. I think you need to sit down and talk to her about how she feels and what she wants, even if you may not get the answers that you want to hear.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (3 January 2011):
 Be worried? It's not exactly a godo thing if she wants to be with someone else other than you. Perhaps she wants to break it off with you?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (3 January 2011):
 You need to talk to her about it i'm afraid. There is no real proof here that you should be worried and plenty of people have crushes on other people even if they are in a happy relationship. Its ok to look but not touch is how the old saying goes. But if it is worrying you then talk to her about it and ask her how she feels.
Goodluck.
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