A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi, I'm in a long distance relationship since 4.5 yrs.. My bf is nice and caring but he doesnt put in the extra effort that is required in a long distance relationship. Initially i used to send him hand-made cards or few other personalised stuffs.. he did reciprocate but that was only till the day i did.. after that he stopped. He has never planned a perfect date for me. In all these 4.5 yrs, he has only suprised me once that also after continuous pestering ( can u imagine begging for a suprise !). I have not recieved a single flower or a small piece of chocolate from him. I know these things are materialistic but it ofcourse matters, rite ? I mean he never feels like pampering me. I see all my friends boyfriends.. inspite of living in the same city they pamper their gfs soo much.. i feel so unappreciated. Plus, our sex life isnt so great. We have made out about 4-5 times till date and i have never had orgasm. He doesnt have the urge to know what is it that is goin wrong.. and that is why im losing all interest.but then its very difficult to leave what we have.. what should i do ? Please help !!
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reader, MamaBear  +, writes (27 May 2011):
It doesn't sound like you have that much going on in your life with this long-distance bf - nor even a very serious relationship after 4.5 years. My suggestion is to make yourself available and find someone closer to your hometown. Surely, one of your friends knows a guy who would enjoy your company. Have them introduce you to him. Let it be known that you are back on the market! I would move on and find someone in your town cuz life is far too short for what you have. The sex life should make you think what you are missing!
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